[Vpmedia]

I've submitted a mod which allows access to most of the default skins
Will be available on this site soon, but I can give you the link now:
http://www.vpmedia.hu/il2/zip/vp_skinmod_v1.2.zip

the QMB mod is here, its from another site, author FC (?):
http://rapidshare.com/files/73527337/QMBPack.zip.html

the other things you've requested need somebody who has more knowledge than me...