[BillSwagger]

......and chaos is a very soft word for describing what's going on there...I guess I should add extra wp-s ?

lol

Well put. You have to make them land in a orderly fashion, so yes...add more way points or even disperse them so they land at other bases/carriers.

Getting AI to fly in close formation can usually only be done with similar aircraft, but remember to use the way points AND the speed you want them to fly at.
You can also set the way point, (that green circle thingy) so that each plane will follow a lead plane, but its important to keep the slowest planes in front so they don't fall behind and it will also keep the faster planes close and tight.