[paolos85]

Ehm sorrybut could u tell me how i can get il2 4.09m

BUT WITH 4.09b1m and all my mods etc.?

4.09m can be obtained via official download at:
http://forum.1cpublishing.eu/showthread.php?t=10276
As far as I know 4.09m is not yet compatible with AAA UI 1.1, because of the lack of the FMs for the new planes.
So, if you want to use your mods with 4.09m you should download the latest SAS United Buttons at SpecialAircraftService, which is compatible with 4.09m.
Then follow the instructions carefully and you should be ok with the mods!
Hope this will help! Cheers.